Archive for July, 2014

The People That Are Considered Happy Today Are The Ones With Miserable Lives. 

Yes!!! This is the magic of social networks & “Facebook Leads.” Nowadays, if you do not post your pictures on Facebook with a (fake) smile, you are considered to be unhappy & misfit in the society.

I know people who have miserable lives in reality but on Facebook they are the most smiling & happy people. And the saddest part is that other people like their pictures with comments like “wow, what a happy family”, “keep smiling”, “you both look awesome together” & so on, but no one tries to know what’s really happening with them.

Women who gets beaten up by their husbands are considered happiest just because of some fake pictures on Facebook & the women that are really peaceful & happy are considered as oppressed when in reality they don’t expose their secrets because, they have something called “Shame” & “Personal Life”

Today, women are unhappy with their beauty & body, just because of the fake photoshoped pictures shown to them every second. And while trying to look like them, they lose their own personalities. They are depressed, unhappy with themselves & therefore they try to satisfy their egos by photoshoping their pictures, to get likes on Facebook. They are always worried about “how can I get slim”, “what cosmetics to buy”, “how to look the prettiest”, “how to impress people” & finally “how to get more likes on my pictures.” Or all they do is, post statuses like, “going out”, having fun”, “so tired, want to sleep” .. FINE!!! but why are you telling this to the world??

I find NO OTHER reason for, why women post their pictures on Facebook & show off their personal lives except, that they have a disease called “inferiority complex”. What else can be a reason of making something that is private & very personal, public? This is a pathetic approval seeking behavior. Please ask yourselves, what is the need of exposing your body? Men don’t respect such women & why should they, when such women don’t have any respect for themselves?

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On the other hand, men are busy in showing off the world how happy they are without wives when in reality they are in depression. Many youngsters are in love & all they do is post poetry & dirty songs, always busy in thinking about the one girl, or busy in copying Hollywood & Bollywood stars, (whose own lives are miserable), wasting time, joking, mocking, partying. Try to show people, how wonderful their lives are. And instead of stopping their family members from exposing themselves on social networks, they themselves post photos of their families, mothers, sisters, daughters, without any shame. They don’t even care that they have male friends who can see all these pictures. They have become shameless or I should say that they should not be called “men with dignity” anymore.

Sadly, this is the state of people today. There is no purpose of life, left. Everyone is living a life of lies & deception, deceiving themselves & deceiving others.

My advise to all such people is, “Get A Life”. Stop lying to yourself & the world & stop seeking approval of others. Get yourself out of this deception. If you want real peace & happiness, stop relying on social networks, likes, comments. No honest friend will ever support you to do this. The ones who comment on your posts are not your friends or well wishers. They just add to your unhappiness & depression. Stop posting you pictures on facebook with fake smiles & stop exposing your personal life. Let your personal life be very personal. Don’t live to please others or to just satisfy your ego. Don’t be fooled by these advertisements which show beautiful people when in reality, it’s only the work of Photoshop.

You are Unique & Beautiful. Don’t let yourself fall into this inferiority complex, just for the sake of fitting yourself in the society. Don’t fall into the rat race.

Parents, spend time worrying about your kids, they are our future. Sisters & Brothers, worry about your education, seek knowledge & spread the truth. Do something productive. Use these networks to share beneficial information. And brothers, please have some shame & stop exposing your daughters, wives & mothers on social networks. If you are madly in love, get married, don’t come to social networks & tell people that “I am feeling romantic” or “I am in love”. Please, have some shame!!!

 

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How Would A Woman Feel If An Army Of Men Come Together, Just To Defend Her?

The Messenger of Allah (salallahu aleyhe wassalam) waged war against Banu Qaynuqa for the sake of one Muslim woman, to defend her. This is what the Messenger of Allah did & this was the way followed by the Khulafa after Him, like al Mu’tasim, the Caliph of Banu Abbas. When a Muslim woman asked for help & said, “Wa Mu’tasima!” (Oh my grief, Mu’tasima!), he replied by sending an army to fight with the super power of his times, the Roman Empire, to defend that one Muslim woman.

Men are the protectors and maintainers of women in Islam. Before marriage, father or brother is responsible for her needs & after marriage the husband. The husband should give his wife the marriage gift and this will be her own property. The wife gets full maintenance from her husband e.g. food, clothing, housing, education, recreation, medication etc. Even if the wife is rich, she need not spend single penny for her husband or family, all these are the responsibilities of her husband. She can go to the court if her husband fails to meet her basic requirements. This tells us how important it is to protect the rights of Muslim women. This is the status of woman in Islam.

Women had the protection of their honor under the Khilafah. Today, we are witnessing a war on Muslim women, whether by so called Muslims or by the disbelievers & the media is helping to wage this war, to bring down the image of our sisters in the eyes of the public & in their own eyes. And this is only because, women would play a strong role in bringing back the Islamic Caliphate, which the west does not want.

What Does The News Channels Show?

 “Islamic brutality against women. The violence against women, fundamental to Islamic teaching.” “Abuse against Muslim wives in America is very prevalent; it’s all over the country.” “The Islamic culture which is based on Islamic Sharia, men are looking for any opportunity to take advantage of women regardless of their feeling.” “We know that Muslim women are brutalized by the Taliban.” “Some international observer warns that an Islamist win could spell a bad news for women’s freedom in Egypt.” “Muslim women are oppressed because they have to cover their bodies.” Bla bla bla…!!!

A recent report in the Guardian stated a 20% increase in Islamophobic attacks since last year. Many incidents are not reported due to mistrust. 54% of the victims that do come forward are female. This is the result of this Islamophobic reportings. They say they are just reporting the truth, but the reality is, no other faith group receives this inaccurate and malicious treatment in the press.

“Repeat a lie & eventually they will believe it.” Adolf Hitler.

“It is only those who do not believe in the signs of Allah, who fabricate the falsehood, and it is they who are liars.” (Qur’an 16:105)

Worthless Efforts.

No matter how much they try, their efforts are worthless…!!!

In the UK around 5000 people who convert to Islam each year, the majority are women. Mostly young & well educated. 20,000 people in the US convert to Islam every year, 75% are women. Over the last 2 decades, there has been a huge rise in Muslim women turning back to Islam, east & west, embracing its belief, dress, practices, its lifestyle, rejecting secular liberalism & adopting Islam as an alternative social & political framework for society & pole after pole of the Muslim world, show increasing number of women wishing to live under the Islamic Sharia Laws.

“But they plan, and Allah plans. And Allah is the best of planners.”  (Qur’an 8:30)

So, Why Are Women Turning To Islam?

Firstly they have understood that practices such as forced marriage, honor killings & seclusion of women from society are from cultural traditions & not Islam.

Secondly, they have recognized that the governments of the Muslim world today do not represent Islamic rule, where the secular democracies, military dictatorships or theocracies, they are all non Islamic autocratic state who have failed dismally to protect the rights, dignity & security of their women, turning a blind eye to abuses. Persecuting women wearing hijab, imprisoning raping victims, stripping women of economic & political rights & proving totally inept in providing adequate access to education & basic needs. It is these regimes that had been the main cause of misery for the women in the Muslim world, not Islam.

The Impact Of Western Liberal Values On Women & Society.

Liberal values have placed the pursuit of individualistic whims & desires as paramount, nurturing a dangerous mind set amongst many men that, they are free to treat women as their desires dictate, resulting in epidemic level of harassment, violence, abuse & rape of women within western societies (In the UK, police receives a call every minute from a victim of domestic violence. At least 47000 women are raped every year in the UK). Sexual freedom has spurn a culture of promiscuity & spiraling rates of teenage pregnancies, abortion, STDs, single mothers & adultery, resulting in the breakdown of marriages & families. All talk of women’s liberation in the west is a disguised form of exploitation of her soul.

The western concept of gender equality often used to label as discriminatory against women, Islam laws on testimony, inheritance, divorce, polygamy, marital rights & responsibilities, have also brought its own set of problems.

Firstly, placing the role of breadwinner over homemaker, devalued motherhood, & then, what was to produce the habitual women, in reality produced the duplex super woman who continue to shoulder the burden of household responsibilities but now also had to suffer the strains of financially maintaining the family. Moreover it failed to stem the tide of abuse against women & deliver the respect that was promised because western feminist failed to recognize that the greatest enemy to women’s right was not Islam but the capitalist system.

The Capitalist System – The Greatest Enemy To Women’s Rights.

The capitalist system has made a business out of constructing & normalizing a culture where “women’s bodies are the product & men’s desires the client”, in advertising, entertainment & the sex industry. Cheapening her status, contributing to discrimination & abuse of women & harming the healthy co operation of men & women in society. This toxic ideology, whose moral compass is defined by the dollar sign has & always will place protecting profits over protecting women’s rights & dignity. It has encouraged the beauty, fashion, diet & cosmetic surgery industries to prey on the insecurities of women regarding their appearance (90% of UK women are unhappy with their bodies), constantly bombarding the young girls with “unrealistic” images of what constitutes beauty, crippling the self esteem of those who are unable to match this template, leading many to view their bodies as the passport to success (good looks = good pay) & causing society to value the worth of  woman upon their looks, rather than their minds & skills. Capitalism has exploited the language of liberation, empowerment & choice to exploit women, so while living under the shadow of this system, women will always face an uphill & eternal battle to secure respect & fight discrimination & abuse.

Conclusion.

The women have been neglected so long in our history, they must take a role in bringing the Islamic civilization back & for the first time in more than 600 years, the Islamic revival is everywhere.

Every successful man needs a Khadija. The first person to embrace Islam was a woman, the wife of the Prophet, Khadija. The first person to die for Islam was a woman, wife of the companion of the Prophet, Summaya. The greatest scholar of Islam was a woman, wife of the Prophet, Aisha. The person who loved the Prophet the most, was a woman who was always with Him when he went out to call people to Islam & when the disbelievers offended Him, she was always there for Him, His daughter, Fatima. One of the greatest fighters in Islamic history was a woman, Khawla bint Al Azwar .

Why am I quoting you these, is to prove that Muslim women were at the forefront of this Islamic awakening, side by side with the Prophet of Allah.

The Prophet (salallahu aleyhe wassalam) said: “The world & all things in the world are precious, but the most precious is a virtuous woman.” “The rights of women are sacred. See, that women are maintained in the rights assigned to them.”

It is time when Muslim women must unite to establish the Islamic Caliphate. It is time when they need to prove to the world that they are not weak & Islam does not oppress women but liberates them. It is time to spread the truth, to expose the lies of the media & tell our non Muslims sisters, the truth about Islam.

“The Truth has come and falsehood has vanished away, Lo! Falsehood is ever bound to vanish.” (Qur’an 17:81)

For My Non Muslim Sisters.

For my non Muslim Sisters, Don’t let media brainwash you. Do not listen to their lies. True liberation is not in being an object of entertainment for men. Don’t let men use you like a tissue paper & then throw you away, you do not deserve this. They will be nice to you on your face but will make fun of you & insult you at your back. Free yourself from this slavery of men. Study Islam & You Will Realize That Sharia Is A Blessing & Protection For Women. Only think about this once, “How will you feel, if you ask for help & the whole army of Muslim men come to protect your honor & dignity. Isn’t this true liberation & protection of your rights?  You Be The Judge…!!!

I invite you to read the book of Allah, the Qur’an. You do not have to take any one’s words for it, decide for yourself whether its the truth or not.

 

Taken from the youtube video – The Light Reloaded.